Sometimes circumstances align themselves in such a way that you have to do something. For example, you could be the only person certified in CPR at an accident scene; or you could have just arrived at an empty easy chair in front of a big screen TV while your Dad is shopping. Things sometimes come together and all you need to do is sit down and enjoy the show. This happened to me today. Consequently, I quit my job.
I stayed home today to get updates on my father’s condition. He has had some heart problems that led him to go for an outpatient procedure. Things did not go so well, but seem to be turning around. He lives in Wisconsin and I in Texas. Taking my family up to see him is not something I can repeat in immediate succession. I took the day off so that I could make phone calls and inquiries. I did not know that my wife, Alma, also took the day off because she had to watch our baby daughter rather than work. We don’t use daycare.
Four things happened. First, I had the time to devote to finding out more about the condition of and deciding whether I should go see my father. I only have one shot at it. If I go once and he’s OK, I will not be able to repeat if his condition reverses. I have to be certain that I need to be there. Second, I got to spend time with my wife and baby daughter while the other two children were in school. That’s just nice. Seriously, it’s nice to spend time with your wife and the baby. Third, Alma and I got a lot done today. There are a lot of personal things that must be done during the week that just get put aside while we work. We were able to address them during business hours and finally get them squared away. And finally, I keep getting calls for computer services; and they keep increasing. It feels wrong to turn away business because I have a job.
On top of all this, I have other goals that involve social media and “community organizing” (thanks Barack). I could not devote enough time to these efforts between work, family, or sleep. Other things I was not doing were podcasts, videos, blog posts, and other content creation. The very things that bring me satisfaction were going unfulfilled.
My now former job was fine. There was enough technical challenge to keep me mentally occupied. I think the main drawback is the problem of fitting a square peg in a round hole. It fits if the hole is big enough; but there is a lot of empty space left over.
Things have aligned themselves in such a way that seeking my own fortune is not full of fear and trepidation. Much like my son, pictured above, it seems like the conditions are right for me to sit down and take my place in front of the big screen TV. I just need to watch my story unfold. For the very first time, I am confident I have done the right thing in leaving steady income. I believe I can accomplish both my need to create content and generate income by striking out on my own.




