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The altar at San Martin de Porres
The altar at San Martin de Porres
Jesus taught a parable about a Good Samaritan, a person outside of his faith who did good deeds. I think He did this to illustrate that one does not have to be of a certain faith to please God. You do not have to be an active church-goer to live a good life. There are instances in the Bible where God called upon people who were outside the faith, like Saint Paul. It’s not a long list of people because that quality does not come naturally to many people. For most of us, it has to be instilled and nurtured; it is a daily struggle.

One of the biggest criticisms of the Catholic Church is that it is so bound by tradition and ritual that there is no true worship behind it. Protestant churches also have some traditions and rituals. Many people attend church and go through the motions with little faith in their hearts. They attend church but act contrary to its teachings. This is the opposite of the Good Samaritan types.

The point of these two opposite kinds of people is that being a part of organized religion does not guarantee salvation any more than being outside organized religion guarantees damnation. There are, however, advantages that come with organized religion versus being a closet practitioner.

There are many things that organized religion of any denomination can provide that the lone practitioner is missing. The greatest amongst these is community. You can think of being part of a community like you would think of being part of a company. It gives you a set of responsibilities. Organized religion teaches discipline through requiring attendance. It gives you accountability. It gives you resources to carry out good deeds. It gives you a set of guidelines to follow. It provides you a network of people with similar beliefs on which you can call. Organized religion also gives people who are interested, a mission to carry out. There are a lot of practical lessons outside of faith that being a part of a church community provides. Faith is just the icing on the cake.

There are also life lessons that organized religion provides. You learn financial discipline knowing that you should give a portion of your income. Organized religion gives you a family. Just like our own families, if we are a constant part of their lives, they will care for us and our welfare. If we are estranged, then they will act as estranged families do. Religion gives us ways to honor those people we love in life, and even in death. The single biggest lesson, if we are looking for it, is that you only get out of it what you put in. This is true in life, business, or any other endeavor that is worthwhile.

It is easy for the more intelligent amongst us to think that we can do it better and on our own. Organized religion easily seems like mind control for the masses. But, what if you submit willingly to the mechanisms? What if you are totally aware of what you are doing and why you are doing it. Is it really mind control? Don’t we practice rituals every day in other avenues of life?

The military, for example, is very steeped in discipline, tradition, compulsory actions, and sacrifice for others. Business is rife with protocols and processes. Government conducts most of its business through bureaucracy, mindless rituals on paper. Yet, we don’t pretend to be a military force of one, it is silly to conduct business with ourselves, and nobody would recognize a government of one person. We cannot practice a faith by ourselves either. We can fulfill the first half of the commandments at home. Despite our own egos, we never accomplish anything great on our own. There are always others who help us along.

If you look at just the Ten Commandments, half deal with your relationship with God, and half deal with your relationship with people. You can infer that he expects you to have a relationship with him AND with people. You cannot carry out the remainder of his commandments without dealing with people. You fulfill only part of his commandments when you pray in your closet. Without people, you don’t need religion. If you were the only person on Earth, you couldn’t honor your parents, commit murder, commit adultery, steal, bear false witness, or covet anything. Without people, it is very difficult to sin. If these opportunities to sin are gone, then why do you need God? You would not need his guidance or comfort. You would have no need to talk to him. Therefore, to believe that one can be faithful in private leaves out that we must do right by others so that we are right with God.

You cannot steal from somebody and then ask forgiveness from God while keeping the item. You should first make right your wrong and then ask forgiveness; that is repentance. It is through our relationships with people that we demonstrate the wisdom that God gives us. We show His wisdom by not sinning against people; and if we fail, by making right our wrongs.

We can sin by what we do; but, we can also sin in what we fail to do, like honoring Him in His house. I’ve looked at alternatives to being Catholic; but, everything requires some investment of time and discipline. If I was a bad Catholic, there was no way I’d be a better something else. If I could do better on my own, then why didn’t I already? If I can’t do right by fallible beings, what chance do I have in doing right by a perfect being? Lawrence Bell said, “show me a man who cannot bother to do little things and I’ll show you a man who cannot be trusted to do big things.” Similarly, Albert Einstein said, “whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with the important matters.” By extension, if we cannot be bothered to do the small things required by our churches, how can we be bothered to do what it takes ask for our own salvation? When we belittle the practice of organized religion, we expose our own unwillingness to be humble, as if we have all the answers.

Ultimately, I decided to take the faith that I was given to me by my parents and run with it. It has a bureaucracy, an appeals system, community, several missions to carry out, a network around the world. Yes, I could pray on my own and worship God without going to church. I don’t go to church for salvation. I go to church for the intangibles that come with being a part of that community.

Do you belong to any clubs, organizations, associations, political parties, business entities, or other coalition of people? Don’t those offer other unintended benefits? Church is no different except that its main focus is around faith. You do not attend church and go through the rituals for salvation. That assumes you have control over God. Whether you practice in private or in church, that decision is beyond your control. You attend church to show humility and to join your family of fellow believers. Like soylent green, Church is people.

Social Media Sites Are Separate Communities

I think that we can probably stretch ourselves too thin when it comes to an online presence. We can’t possibly be everywhere all the time. More and more, I see social media sites as real and separate communities. We have different roles in each one, but do not necessarily maintain a constant presence in them. I don’t think we have to. There are some popular sites amongst those who are into the social media craze. As Scobleizer points out, there are some that are underhyped. So, should we all flock over to Meebo? It depends. Where do you like hanging out?

Think about your offline life for a moment. You wake up in your home, it’s a nice residential neighborhood. You get in your car and drive to work, in a commercial neighborhood somewhere amongst other businesses. You go to church, and that has its own community. Maybe you are a member of a local non-profit. That carries its own community. Your kids have their own little community in school, which you visit on parent-teacher night. You may be a member of a fraternity, a lodge, the military, or some other organization, each with their own communities.

My point in all of these different aspects of your life require different things from you. At school, you are a parent. At church, you are a parishioner. At City Hall, you are a citizen. In your neighborhood, you are… well, a neighbor. All of these things are a part of you; but, they don’t completely define you. You don’t go about checking each of these communities every day. You simply dip into them once in a while to see what’s going on. Some days you spend a little more time in some than others. Some you spend the least amount of time possible.

Similarly, you cannot hope to throw yourself at every social media site out there. Your friends know where you live and where you work. If necessary, they know how to find you in the physical world. In social media, if you spend most of your time on Twitter or Facebook or somewhere else, your friends would know where to go looking for you. In fact, they probably know what other communities their other friends frequent. You probably go find your friends on the sites they frequent as well. You spend a little time here and there when visiting friends and spend most of your time on one or two places. Maintaining a web presence is not about being everywhere. It’s about being somewhere people can find you.

Community and Giving

Tonight while listening in on Twitter, I saw a link to the latest post by Connie Reece. Despite her condition, she made it a point to attend church today. At church, she heard her friend say “it’s an honor to serve you” when the communion plate came around. Those six words succintly described the value of community.

This realization reminds me of some things I have read, heard, and thought about regarding community. Many of us who are really digging the rise of social media on the Internet really enjoy the facility with which we can connect with others of similar interests and passions. Of course, in life we can have friends with a variety of interests. Online communities share common traits with our everyday communities, except for physical presence. This can be an important distinction.

One thought that comes to mind is what I read in one of the 7 Habits books is “if there is no gardener, there is no garden”. The context of that was that you can’t simply plant some seedlings and forget about them. This applies to anybody who has an online presence. You cannot jump on Twitter one day and say that you have a social network. You cannot check up on your facebook account once a month and expect that to be a way of keeping in touch with your friends. In order to have the garden, you need to actively and consistently maintain that garden. In social media, you need to actively and consistently maintain those connections. More than that, you need to make those connections meaningful; and, you need to make those connections in your every day life.

I can admit that I sometimes get carried away with checking up on my online accounts to see what my online friends are doing. It is easy to neglect your community locally. The first community we all have is our family. Beyond that there are our neighbors, co-workers, and fellow parishioners. We belong to these communities and we often neglect to put in the necessary time to maintain these local communities. We don’t often take the time to ask how somebody’s day is going, to wish a happy birthday, or to even ask if there is anything that we can do to help.

When it comes down to it, most of the people who are of note in the online community offer their friends something of value. They give valuable advice, ideas, assistance, and many other things. Locally, we give similar things to our communities. We give our time, advice, ideas, assistance, and more. I find that many of the things that make you a star in the online world are the same things that make you a star in your local community. More than that, we are physically present to actually do something.

Going back to the concept of gardens requiring a gardener, it is important to remind you that you should spend a little time being of service in your home, church, and other communities where people live with you and are at hand to help you in a time of need. Be sure to serve those who are physically in your community as you would those in your online communities. It is your local friends who can check in on you and offer a helping hand much easier than your online friends can. They are worth the same amount of attention; give it to them.